OPAR Cemetery: A Noble Initiative Born from Personal Experience for Eternal Peace

A few months ago, I went to visit my family in Dhaka, Bangladesh before joining my new job at Checkr in San Francisco. On this particular trip, my brother, Rasheduzzaman, the visionary CEO of OPAR Cemetery, took several of us on a journey to a serene location in Gazipur. This wasn't just a casual outing; it was an introduction to the very ground where a profound vision is taking shape—a vision born from personal heartache and a deep-seated desire to serve the community. My father Mohammad Shamsuzzaman has been working with him for a long time before they could buy the land there last December. I am truly honored and happy to share this initiative, which stands as a powerful blend of thoughtful business and heartfelt social responsibility.

The Genesis: A Solution Born from Pain

The idea for OPAR Cemetery wasn't conceived in a boardroom; it emerged from a deeply personal and challenging experience. Three and half years ago, when my father-in-law passed away in Dhaka, it was an incredibly difficult time for our family. During this period of profound grief, my brother, Rasheduzzaman, along with my wife Shusmita, faced immense stress. They had to tirelessly run around Dhaka, navigating the complexities of funeral arrangements and, crucially, securing a burial plot in the Banani Graveyard, a process that proved to be a significant logistical and emotional burden, even though it was across from our house.

This firsthand experience exposed a stark reality: the lack of streamlined, dignified, and accessible options for final arrangements in Bangladesh. Russel deeply felt the pain and hardship families endured during their most vulnerable moments. It was this realization that ignited a spark—a determination to find a solution that could alleviate such burdens for countless others. Thus, the noble idea of OPAR Cemetery was born: a vision to transform this pain point into a comprehensive, compassionate service.

Rest in Peace: A Serene Sanctuary in Kapasia, Gazipur

Nestled amidst the serene embrace of nature in Kapasia, Gazipur, the OPAR Cemetery stands as a poignant testament to the delicate balance between life and death. As one ventures through the gates, a lush tapestry of greenery unfolds, with towering trees casting a gentle shade over the sacred grounds. The air is permeated with the soothing symphony of rustling leaves and the distant melody of songbirds, providing solace to those who come to pay their respects. This isn't just a burial ground; it's a meticulously planned sanctuary designed to offer dignity, tranquility, and respect.

What is OPAR Cemetery? A Groundbreaking Solution

OPAR Cemetery is groundbreaking for Bangladesh: it is the first private and commercial graveyard for Muslims, inspired by the concept of Social Business. Its core mission is to facilitate and support a dignified resting place for Muslims after death, alongside integrated funeral services that uphold social causes and religious practices in a more functional and personal way.

For families, the challenge of finding a suitable and permanent burial plot in Dhaka's congested environment can add immense stress during a time of grief. OPAR Cemetery offers a vital solution: privately bought graves (Saf Kabla registered) where individuals can secure an eternal resting place for themselves and their family members, in accordance with Islamic values. This unprecedented idea of a "sellable" private graveyard will cut off all the stress and hardship of finding a grave and burying the deceased, ensuring immediate burial as recommended by Islam.

A Full Spectrum of Services for the Departed and Their Families

OPAR Cemetery, strategically located at Kapasia, Gazipur—about 100 minutes driving distance from Dhaka through BRT—will span around 2 acres, accommodating over 1500 grave plots. Beyond the plots themselves, it provides a comprehensive "one-stop funeral solution" including:

• Mosque Facility: A dedicated mosque with a qualified Imam for continuous prayers and large spaces for Janaza (funeral) prayers.
• Funeral Services: Washing facilities, a funeral shop, and related services to ease the burden on families.
• Logistics: Freezer vans for preserving the deceased and ample parking facilities for visitors.
• Maintenance Support: Ensuring the grave plots and grounds are respectfully and continuously maintained.
• Accessibility: A site office for assistance and even a café for visitors.

Grave plots are available for both installment and one-off payments, with a quarterly maintenance fee for occupied graves. 

Corporate Social Responsibility: Upholding Equality and Dignity

What truly elevates OPAR Cemetery is its unwavering commitment to social responsibility. Fifty plots will be generously donated free of cost for emergencies and for those unable to afford them, with all related costs (funeral, burying, and maintenance) also exempted indefinitely. This ensures that dignity in death is accessible to all, irrespective of financial status.

Moreover, a fundamental principle of OPAR Cemetery is the equal treatment of all grave plots in honor of the departed soul. The deceased will be buried with environment-friendly compostable materials, and no exceptions or special arrangements will be allowed that could create asymmetry or disparity, ensuring equality and respect throughout the sacred grounds.

Join This Noble Initiative for Peace of Mind

I am personally invested in and genuinely happy to be part of this noble initiative. It's a venture that not only provides a crucial, much-needed service but also embodies profound social and religious values, born from a compassionate response to a personal hardship.

I invite all my friends, relatives, and especially our Non-Resident Bangladeshi (NRB) community around the world, to learn more about OPAR Cemetery. This is an opportunity to secure peace of mind for your loved ones or contribute to a project that brings dignity, ease, and equality during life's most challenging moments.

For more information, please visit their platforms:

• Website: https://oparbd.com/
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/opar.cemetery
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/opar.cemetery/
• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@OparCemetery
• Twitter: https://x.com/Opar_cemetery 
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/oparcemetery/ 

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Let's support this meaningful endeavor for eternal peace and dignified farewells.

An Eventful 2024: Wrapping Up the Year in Los Cabos, Mexico

What a year 2024 turned out to be! Filled with exciting travels, major family milestones, my first layoff in career and even unexpected political developments back in Bangladesh, this year has truly kept me on my toes. As December rolled in, my wife Shusmita, our son Ahyan, and our daughter Suhaila joined me in a final adventure to close out the year in Los Cabos, Mexico. It was the perfect finishing touch to an eventful twelve months.

A Year of Travel, Celebrations, and Challenges

• Guys’ Trip to Las Vegas (September)
  In September, I took a “guys only” trip with some friends to Las Vegas. We laughed nonstop, enjoyed some shows, and simply took a break from the daily grind. Vegas never disappoints when it comes to letting loose!

• Elk Meadow Cabins at Orick, CA
  Later in the year, eight families/friends teamed up for a serene getaway to Elk Meadow Cabins in Orick, California. Nestled among giant redwoods and scenic trails, it gave us the perfect blend of nature and bonding time.

• Political Shifts in Bangladesh
  2024 will also be remembered for the violent downfall of the fascist Hasina government in Bangladesh—a momentous shift. I participated in protests both online and in the Bay Area, supporting the push for democracy. Then, one of my role models, Nobel Laureate Dr. Yunus, stepped up to lead the interim government, kindling hope for a better future in my home country.

• Career Ups and Downs
  This year brought a personal career challenge: getting laid off for the very first time in my life. While unexpected, it pushed me toward a much-needed Myrtle Beach family trip in South Carolina. A little sunshine and sand always help put things into perspective.

• Family Milestones
  2024 was big for our extended family, too. We finally hosted the long-awaited, grand 50th-anniversary celebration for my parents in Bangladesh. Friends, relatives, and extended family came together to make it an unforgettable day.
  Meanwhile, my son Ahyan graduated and moved to the University of Miami to study Musical Theatre. Before he officially started classes, we managed a couple of short trips to New York and Florida—quick but memorable getaways to set him on his path.

• Road Trips Galore
  Taking my friend Nayan—who flew in from Bangladesh—to Las Vegas by road for his business seminar in the U.S. was another highlight. Road-tripping is a fantastic way to see America’s diverse landscapes.
  And speaking of road trips, I had a memorable drive through Monument Valley with my friend Wali Bhai. Watching the sun set against the iconic red rock formations was a spiritual experience, to say the least.

Ending 2024 on a High Note in Los Cabos

After such a whirlwind year, it felt only right to wind down in a place known for relaxation and adventure alike. Our Los Cabos trip came about rather spontaneously—but turned into the perfect culmination of 2024’s highs and lows.

• ATV Zip Car Thrills
  One of our favorite activities was tearing across the dunes in an ATV zip car. The roar of the engine and the spray of sand added an element of thrill to our beach vacation. Ahyan, always our little daredevil, took the passenger seat for an up-close taste of desert adventure.

• Bike Ziplining
  Riding a bike while ziplining—yes, really—was one of the most surreal experiences we’ve had. Pedaling above the desert at sunset, gazing out at the golden terrain, gave us a bird’s-eye view of the vast Mexican landscape.

• Nighttime Camel Trek
  Imagine the gentle sway of a camel beneath a star-dotted sky. It’s not every day you picture yourself on camelback in Mexico, but Los Cabos made it happen! The kids adored feeding the camels, and Shusmita found the entire moonlit experience almost dreamlike.

• RCI Membership Perks
  Even though it was somewhat last minute, my RCI membership helped secure discounted rates on lodging and activities. It took some of the financial sting out of planning a spontaneous trip, allowing us to splurge on extra adventures.

• Relaxation, Mexican Style
  Of course, we balanced out the adrenaline with downtime by the beach, sampling fresh seafood, and exploring local markets. Suhaila brought home handmade trinkets while Shusmita and I enjoyed sipping on ice-cold drinks under a warm sun.

Looking Ahead

As we said adiós to Los Cabos—and to 2024—we couldn’t help but reflect on how much this year has changed us. From witnessing significant political events in Bangladesh, to celebrating family milestones, to crossing new travel adventures off our bucket list, we ended the year feeling both grateful and inspired.

Where will 2025 take us? Who knows? But after the roller coaster that was 2024, I’m excited to see what the future holds.

Why I’m Voting for Change: A Call for Anti-War Leadership in 2024

As an American, I’m increasingly troubled by our country’s role in Middle Eastern foreign policy. Despite their domestic differences, both major political parties continue to follow a strategy of military intervention, regime change, and arms deals that destabilize regions and cost countless lives. Watching these policies unfold year after year, it’s difficult not to feel disillusioned.

Once again, we’re faced with candidates from the Democratic and Republican parties, Kamala Harris and Donald Trump, neither of whom promises a meaningful shift away from this destructive path. Both candidates represent parties with a long history of interventionist policies that have harmed innocent lives abroad and left our veterans struggling with trauma here at home.

I recognize that change won’t come overnight. It will take time for a third party to rise as a real alternative to the Democrats and Republicans. But we have to start somewhere—just as others have throughout history. I’ve often heard the argument that “there is no alternative to the Awami League in Bangladesh because other parties are weaker or worse.” But a student-led revolution proved that idea wrong when a repressive government was forced out and its leader, Sheikh Hasina, had to flee. This shows that change can happen when people unite and push for it.

For those disillusioned with U.S. foreign policy, we have two strong third-party candidates this year: Jo Jorgensen from the Libertarian Party and Jill Stein from the Green Party. While I respect both candidates, Jill Stein stands out because of the Green Party’s clear anti-war stance.

Debate on voting for a third party has also gained momentum among American Muslims, with respected scholars like Yasir Qadhi weighing in. In the video below, he highlights that a third-party vote sends a powerful message to the major parties, showing them that they have failed to address the values and needs of minority communities, particularly those of Muslims.

Here’s why I’m voting Green in 2024, and why I encourage others to consider it:

1. An Anti-War Platform

The Green Party’s commitment to peace is a primary reason for choosing Jill Stein. Our involvement in the Middle East has often been justified under the banner of democracy or national security, yet these interventions frequently lead to human rights abuses and suffering for ordinary people. The Green Party’s platform aligns with my belief that America should step back from policies that perpetuate endless conflict.

2. Prioritizing Diplomacy Over Military Spending

Both major parties continue to increase military spending, creating a defense budget that overshadows funding for healthcare, education, and climate action. Jill Stein advocates for reallocating resources away from defense spending and toward social services, reducing our financial and moral debt from unnecessary wars.

3. A Shift in Foreign Policy

The Green Party envisions a foreign policy that prioritizes diplomacy, international cooperation, and respect for sovereignty over unilateral action. This kind of policy can restore America’s image abroad and foster a more peaceful world. The Green Party consistently opposes interventions that put American lives and taxpayer dollars at risk without ethical justification.

4. The Importance of Starting Somewhere

If we want a truly representative democracy, we can’t keep waiting for change to come from the same parties that have failed us. A vote for Jill Stein is a small but powerful step toward a larger movement. It sends a clear message to the major parties: both of you have failed to deliver the peace and security Americans need. Just as we’ve seen in history, even an “impossible” movement can gather strength over time if people believe in it.

By voting for Jill Stein, I’m choosing to challenge a system that, for too long, has left us with few choices for ethical foreign policy. It’s a message that we cannot continue to pick between two parties that perpetuate endless wars with no clear goals. To everyone feeling disillusioned, this is our chance to begin. Let’s do it—for a peaceful, just America and a brighter future for us all.

A Crypto Miracle: Turning a $70K Loss into an $89K Gain

I have an unbelievable story to share with you all—it's been a rollercoaster of emotions this past week!

Remember back in 2017 to 2019 when I was diving deep into the world of cryptocurrencies? I participated in a bunch of ICOs for small cryptos across various exchanges. To be honest, it didn't go as planned, and I ended up losing about $70,000 USD. It was a tough lesson, and I kind of stepped away from the crypto scene after that.

Fast forward to about a week ago, I received an email from KuCoin, one of the exchanges I used back then. The email mentioned that KuCoin is closing its operations in the USA and that if I had any coins left, I should withdraw them within the next few days. I was swamped with other things and didn't think much of it—I assumed maybe I had a few dollars left at most. So, I didn't even open the email immediately.

Today, I finally had some free time and decided to check out that email. After a lot of trial and error (I hadn't logged into that account in five years!), I managed to access my KuCoin account. Navigating the old Korean exchange platform was a challenge, especially since I had forgotten most of my login details.

And here's where it gets crazy: I discovered that the coins I had left in that account had grown to $89,000! I was absolutely stunned. I thought maybe there'd be $50 or so left, but nearly $90k? I had to pinch myself to make sure I wasn't dreaming.

But the adventure didn't stop there. I faced a new hurdle—I couldn't withdraw the funds because I had lost access to my Google Authenticator 2FA. It was a stressful few hours trying to recover that. After a lot of back-and-forth and perhaps a few new gray hairs, I finally managed to move the coins to my MetaMask wallet for BNB and to Trust Wallet for KCS.

Now, the next step is cashing out. I applied to Binance.US so I can convert the BNB to ETH and then transfer it to Coinbase to cash out. Of course, I had also lost my Binance.US 2FA, so that added another layer of complexity. I've submitted all the necessary documents, including my driver's license, and now I'm just waiting for them to verify my account. Hopefully, in the next three business days, I'll be able to access the funds.

Here's the most amazing part: I recently lost my job, and things have been pretty tight financially. To stumble upon this unexpected windfall feels like a miracle. It's as if the universe—or perhaps a higher power—found a way to keep me afloat when I needed it most.

Isn't that incredible? Life has a funny way of surprising us when we least expect it. I just had to share this wild turn of events with you all!

The Bed of Procrustes: Philosophical and Practical Aphorisms by Nassim Nicholas Taleb

The Bed of Procrustes: Philosophical and Practical Aphorisms by Nassim Nicholas Taleb is a sharp, thought-provoking collection of short insights that really make you stop and think. Taleb touches on everything from uncertainty and randomness to human nature and how much we actually don't know. It’s a bit like The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran and Sovietsky Koutukov by Masud Mahmood—packed with wisdom you want to keep coming back to.

I finished the Audible version and liked it so much that I ordered the hardcover, because, like those two books, I plan to read it every once in a while. Taleb’s style is witty and to the point, but these aphorisms have layers that take time to fully appreciate. If you enjoy deep, bite-sized philosophical insights, this book is definitely worth adding to your shelf.

Here are some quotes from the book that resonate well with me - 

• True humility is when you can surprise yourself more than others; the rest is either shyness or good marketing
• You know you have influence when people start noticing your absence more than the presence of others.
• They agree that chess training only improves chess skills but disagree that classroom training (almost) only improves classroom skills.
• Your reputation is harmed the most by what you say to defend it.
• You are rich if money you refuse tastes better than money you accept.
• Regular minds find similarities in stories (and situations); finer minds detect differences.
• Sometimes people ask you a question with their eyes begging you to not tell them the truth.
• A verbal threat is the most authentic certificate of impotence.
• The difference between slaves in Roman and Ottoman days and today’s employees is that slaves did not need to flatter their boss.
• Asking science to explain life and vital matters is equivalent to asking a grammarian to explain poetry.
• Religion isn’t so much about telling man that there is one God as about preventing man from thinking that he is God.
• Social science means inventing a certain brand of human we can understand.
• Those who think religion is about “belief” don’t understand religion, and don’t understand belief.
• Hatred is much harder to fake than love. You hear of fake love; never of fake hate.
• The best test of whether someone is extremely stupid (or extremely wise) is whether financial and political news makes sense to him.
• Engineers can compute but not define, mathematicians can define but not compute, economists can neither define nor compute.
• Love without sacrifice is like theft.
• The Web is an unhealthy place for someone hungry for attention.
• If you find any reason why you and someone are friends, you are not friends.

Thoughts on Life, Death, and Overcoming Fear

I've been pondering a topic that's universally relevant yet rarely discussed - death and the anxieties it evokes. As I delve deeper into understanding it, I feel compelled to share my thoughts and invite your perspectives.

Some of you might know of my deep-seated fear of death. I've grappled with it for a while, seeking ways to lessen its hold on me. This fear transcends the physical aspects of dying, like illness. It's a more profound existential concern.

For a while now, I've been contemplating two main approaches to comprehending death: through a religious lens and a secular one. As a Muslim, I've dedicated significant effort to understanding the purpose of life and death within the Islamic framework, and I find comfort and coherence in its teachings.

However, I've also explored death from a purely secular perspective, but haven't yet unearthed anything particularly groundbreaking.

This has led me to wonder if my fear stems from a fear of missing out (FOMO) – the idea that the universe will continue to thrive long after I'm gone, and I won't be a part of it. To address this, I considered the possibility that as I age, and perhaps life's novelty wanes (though thankfully, that hasn't been the case so far!), my attachment to this FOMO might lessen. Perhaps, it could eventually lead to indifference towards death, or even a preference for it as life loses its luster.

Is this just a theoretical notion, or could it hold practical truth? The image I've attached (an old woman, presumably content) gives me a glimmer of hope that such acceptance might be attainable.

I'd be grateful for your thoughts and any insights you're willing to share on this topic.

A LookBack at Year 2023

As the fresh breeze of 2024 begins to unfold its chapters, I find myself pausing to reflect on the whirlwind that was 2023. It was a year that brought with it a multitude of experiences, emotions, and milestones. Here's a look back at some of the highlights that made 2023 a year to remember.

A Year in Books

My journey through the pages continued unabated as I devoured 126 books. This is the highest number of books I have ever finished in a single calendar year. The majority were audiobooks, perfect companions during my travels and downtime, but I also treasured the tactile feel of paperbacks and the convenience of Kindle reads. Each book was a new adventure, a new learning experience, and a new perspective gained. I started the year with a target of 60 books but crossed that mark halfway in the year and hence targeted for 100 books, which also I crossed within the first 10 months. My 2024 target will be again 60 books.

On the Road

Speaking of adventures, 2023 saw me embarking on an epic 8-day solo road trip across the USA, covering 5700 miles of diverse landscapes and stories. I covered Shoshone Falls, Yellowstone National Park, Grand Teton, Arches National Park, Zion National Park, Bryce Canyon amongst others in my Tesla. This grand expedition, along with several shorter ones, was a testament to the joy of exploration and the freedom of the open road.

Professional Milestones

On the professional front, I played a pivotal role in Twin Health's significant Series D fundraising of $50 million. Contributing to this milestone was not just a career highlight but a step toward revolutionizing healthcare of chronic diseases like Diabetes and Obesity through our health tech startup.

Family First

2023 was a special year for family achievements and gatherings. My son, Ahyan Zaman, took a bold step toward his dreams by applying for undergraduate programs in musical theatre. Meanwhile, my wife and daughter had a fantastic trip exploring the rich cultures of Tajikistan and Malaysia. The year began with a heartwarming visit from my parents to our home in the San Francisco Bay Area, filling our space with laughter and memories along with a great Hawaii trip. My brother Russel's first visit led us on a series of adventures across the USA, including a memorable trip to Florida to meet with cousins and New York to meet with my Uncle's family.

New Beginnings and Unexpected Turns

I embarked on a new creative venture, launching my YouTube channel Leader's Whiteboard, where I've delivered 17 episodes so far, aiming to inspire and connect with fellow industry leaders and engineers.

However, life had its twists when my Honda Accord was stolen. Remarkably, with the swift action of LoJack and the Fremont Police, it was recovered within 24 hours - a small saga that reminded me of the resilience and community spirit that we often take for granted.

Looking Ahead

As I step into 2024, I carry with me the rich tapestry of experiences from the past year. It's a mix of knowledge gained from books, the freedom tasted on open roads, the satisfaction of professional achievements, the joy of family time, and the excitement of new ventures.

Here's to 2024 - a year I hope will be filled with health, happiness, and success for all. May it be a year where we continue to grow, connect, and make a positive impact in our own lives and the lives of others. Let's make it another year to remember!

Wishing everyone a spectacular New Year!