Monday, October 20, 2025

A Personal Goodbye to Danya: Remembering GM Daniel Naroditsky (1995–2025)

The news that American Grandmaster Daniel Naroditsky passed away yesterday, October 19th, has left the global chess community in stunned silence. At just 29, Danya, as he was affectionately known, was a brilliant competitor, a prodigious talent, and a phenomenal educator whose infectious enthusiasm made chess accessible and captivating for countless people. His passing leaves a profound void.

While the world knew Danya for his incredible achievements—a grandmaster by 18, a U12 World Champion, and a five-time U.S. Championship competitor—my memories of him are more personal, rooted in the Bay Area chess scene. It felt like he was a constant presence at the Mechanics' Institute Chess Club, often immersed in a game, or just as frequently, holding court during one of his insightful lectures. He had a way of breaking down complex ideas into digestible, engaging lessons, making even the most intricate positions seem approachable. His passion for teaching was palpable, and I, like many others, spent countless hours trying to absorb his wisdom from the audience.

I’ve lost more games to Danya in various arenas than I care to count—usually in spectacular fashion—but there is one memory that stands out above all. It was 2014, and he hosted a massive simultaneous exhibition against 50 opponents or so, not in the usual club setting, but outside at the San Francisco Botanical Garden. It was a beautiful day, and the contrast between the calm natural surroundings and the intense chess struggle was striking.

I found myself opposite him, playing the black pieces, and somehow, through pure stubbornness and maybe a little help from the chess gods, I managed to steer our game into an exchange up position where Danya had to go for a defence so that I can't break through him. He put enough counter chances that I had no way to push forward any further without heavy risk of loosing.

As he glided by my board, already well into the final stages of the simul, Danya paused for a second longer than he had for any of the other boards I saw. He gave a slight, almost imperceptible nod and extended his hand. Draw agreed.


Here's the picture from that unforgettable day: That single half-point, earned against the Grandmaster, outside in the sunshine, was a highlight of my amateur career. It wasn't just the result; it was the moment of quiet acknowledgment from a player who always treated the game, and those who played it, with immense respect.

The chess world has lost one of its kindest, most talented, and most eloquent voices. Our thoughts are with his family, his friends, and the Charlotte Chess Center community. Thank you, Danya, for all the inspiration, all the joy, and for that unforgettable half-point. You will be deeply missed.

Let us honor Daniel by remembering his passion for chess and the inspiration he brought to us all.

Sunday, October 19, 2025

How do we speak — positive, negative, or neutral?

 I came across an interesting way to look at our daily conversations. Almost everything we say falls into one of three kinds of statements:


  1. Positive - “The weather is beautiful today.” Affirms something desirable or true.
  2. Negative - “The weather is terrible today.” Denies or criticizes something.
  3. Neutral - “The weather is 75°F today.” States a fact without emotion or judgment.

It made me wonder — what percentage of your speech do you think falls under each of these categories?
For me, I’ve noticed I naturally try to reduce negative statements and increase positive ones, though honestly, most of what I say is neutral (just facts, updates, or simple observations). It will be difficult to put some %, but let's give it a try anyway. I think 5% negative, 20% positive and 75% neutral.
Curious to hear your self-estimates — how do your conversations break down between positive, negative, and neutral?

Monday, October 13, 2025

Awami League Supporter vs Critic Spectrum

I spent some time creating this detailed Categorization of Supporters and Critics of the Awami League based on my observations and experience, and now I'm genuinely curious about where my diversified friends here land!


I'll start: I put myself squarely in Category 9—those who dislike Awami League immensely but don't want to Ban Awami League as a Political Party.

Which category number (1 through 10 as per the diagram) do you feel you belong to?
Did I miss any major categories of thought or action? What other significant groups of supporters or critics exist that this diagram doesn't capture?
Let's keep the discussion open-minded and respectful! 👇

Friday, October 03, 2025

OPAR Cemetery: A Noble Initiative Born from Personal Experience for Eternal Peace

A few months ago, I went to visit my family in Dhaka, Bangladesh before joining my new job at Checkr in San Francisco. On this particular trip, my brother, Rasheduzzaman, the visionary CEO of OPAR Cemetery, took several of us on a journey to a serene location in Gazipur. This wasn't just a casual outing; it was an introduction to the very ground where a profound vision is taking shape—a vision born from personal heartache and a deep-seated desire to serve the community. My father Mohammad Shamsuzzaman has been working with him for a long time before they could buy the land there last December. I am truly honored and happy to share this initiative, which stands as a powerful blend of thoughtful business and heartfelt social responsibility.


The Genesis: A Solution Born from Pain

The idea for OPAR Cemetery wasn't conceived in a boardroom; it emerged from a deeply personal and challenging experience. Three and half years ago, when my father-in-law passed away in Dhaka, it was an incredibly difficult time for our family. During this period of profound grief, my brother, Rasheduzzaman, along with my wife Shusmita, faced immense stress. They had to tirelessly run around Dhaka, navigating the complexities of funeral arrangements and, crucially, securing a burial plot in the Banani Graveyard, a process that proved to be a significant logistical and emotional burden, even though it was across from our house.

This firsthand experience exposed a stark reality: the lack of streamlined, dignified, and accessible options for final arrangements in Bangladesh. Russel deeply felt the pain and hardship families endured during their most vulnerable moments. It was this realization that ignited a spark—a determination to find a solution that could alleviate such burdens for countless others. Thus, the noble idea of OPAR Cemetery was born: a vision to transform this pain point into a comprehensive, compassionate service.


Rest in Peace: A Serene Sanctuary in Kapasia, Gazipur

Nestled amidst the serene embrace of nature in Kapasia, Gazipur, the OPAR Cemetery stands as a poignant testament to the delicate balance between life and death. As one ventures through the gates, a lush tapestry of greenery unfolds, with towering trees casting a gentle shade over the sacred grounds. The air is permeated with the soothing symphony of rustling leaves and the distant melody of songbirds, providing solace to those who come to pay their respects. This isn't just a burial ground; it's a meticulously planned sanctuary designed to offer dignity, tranquility, and respect.


What is OPAR Cemetery? A Groundbreaking Solution

OPAR Cemetery is groundbreaking for Bangladesh: it is the first private and commercial graveyard for Muslims, inspired by the concept of Social Business. Its core mission is to facilitate and support a dignified resting place for Muslims after death, alongside integrated funeral services that uphold social causes and religious practices in a more functional and personal way.

For families, the challenge of finding a suitable and permanent burial plot in Dhaka's congested environment can add immense stress during a time of grief. OPAR Cemetery offers a vital solution: privately bought graves (Saf Kabla registered) where individuals can secure an eternal resting place for themselves and their family members, in accordance with Islamic values. This unprecedented idea of a "sellable" private graveyard will cut off all the stress and hardship of finding a grave and burying the deceased, ensuring immediate burial as recommended by Islam.


A Full Spectrum of Services for the Departed and Their Families

OPAR Cemetery, strategically located at Kapasia, Gazipur—about 100 minutes driving distance from Dhaka through BRT—will span around 2 acres, accommodating over 1500 grave plots. Beyond the plots themselves, it provides a comprehensive "one-stop funeral solution" including:

  • Mosque Facility: A dedicated mosque with a qualified Imam for continuous prayers and large spaces for Janaza (funeral) prayers.
  • Funeral Services: Washing facilities, a funeral shop, and related services to ease the burden on families.
  • Logistics: Freezer vans for preserving the deceased and ample parking facilities for visitors.
  • Maintenance Support: Ensuring the grave plots and grounds are respectfully and continuously maintained.
  • Accessibility: A site office for assistance and even a café for visitors.

Grave plots are available for both installment and one-off payments, with a quarterly maintenance fee for occupied graves. 


Corporate Social Responsibility: Upholding Equality and Dignity

What truly elevates OPAR Cemetery is its unwavering commitment to social responsibility. Fifty plots will be generously donated free of cost for emergencies and for those unable to afford them, with all related costs (funeral, burying, and maintenance) also exempted indefinitely. This ensures that dignity in death is accessible to all, irrespective of financial status.

Moreover, a fundamental principle of OPAR Cemetery is the equal treatment of all grave plots in honor of the departed soul. The deceased will be buried with environment-friendly compostable materials, and no exceptions or special arrangements will be allowed that could create asymmetry or disparity, ensuring equality and respect throughout the sacred grounds.


Join This Noble Initiative for Peace of Mind

I am personally invested in and genuinely happy to be part of this noble initiative. It's a venture that not only provides a crucial, much-needed service but also embodies profound social and religious values, born from a compassionate response to a personal hardship.

I invite all my friends, relatives, and especially our Non-Resident Bangladeshi (NRB) community around the world, to learn more about OPAR Cemetery. This is an opportunity to secure peace of mind for your loved ones or contribute to a project that brings dignity, ease, and equality during life's most challenging moments.


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Let's support this meaningful endeavor for eternal peace and dignified farewells.

A Personal Goodbye to Danya: Remembering GM Daniel Naroditsky (1995–2025)

The news that American Grandmaster Daniel Naroditsky passed away yesterday, October 19th, has left the global chess community in stunned sil...